Whether you're 12 or 22!
Thinking of your crush can get anyone feeling giddy - whether you're 12 or 22. A lot of us spend so much time thinking about them and putting them on a pedestal that we forget we need to talk to them for anything to happen! I know it can be tough, but here are some reasons why anyone should take the chance and speak up!
1. Confidence is sexy!
Just think about the people you’ve been interested in but too shy to approach. Chances are, they’re confident in who they are. This can be intimidating as fuuuuuuck. But showing them that you’ve got just as much confidence can be a huge turn on.
2. Something ah-mazing could come of it!
JUST IMAGINE IF THINGS GO WELL. You could have the opportunity to date someone you’ve been interested in for a while! You could literally make your dreams a reality! How great would that be??
3. If it doesn't turn out the way you want, you won't spend more time pining over them
We gotta acknowledge the fact that it is possible things won’t go the way you want them to. BUT it’s still going to be a good thing in the long run, I promise! If they don’t feel the same way, you won’t continue to waste time hoping this person will fall for you. Trust me, this is a blessing in disguise.
4. If you're a girl, it's almost 2018! Women can and should ask guys out, too!
Most guys I know have said they would be flattered if a girl asked for their number first. This goes back to the confidence required in asking someone out! A lot of guys will appreciate it!
5. It's possible they haven't noticed you (in that way)!
How are you gonna get a date if you’re constantly too shy to interact with them?? If there’s a solid chance they don’t know who you are (and I mean this in the least condescending and terrible way possible) then it’s time to show them! Don’t let them slip away because you were too shy to even make yourself visible!
6. Whether you're rejected or feelings are reciprocated, you'll earn respect!
As stated before – people appreciate knowing that someone thinks they’re attractive in some way. And people really appreciate it when you let them know it. From that appreciation comes respect – because most people are not comfortable enough with themselves to show that level of intrigue and vulnerability.
7. It's okay to be rejected!
Rejection is a part of life. It happens in personal and professional relationships all the time. Being rejected often has nothing to do with you – it really is about them. Unfortunately, you’re not going to be everyone’s cup of tea. But you will be the perfect comforting beverage for someone. And when it happens, it’ll be amazing.
8. Being rejected is not the end of the world!
It really isn’t. It may feel like it. But it’s not. You will eventually feel better. The initial embarrassment will recede and you’ll honestly feel empowered from the experience.
9. Your crush is just another human being!
I know that this person may seem like the Greek gods’ embodiment – but they really are just another human. It’s a tough thing to remember when you view someone in such a positive light. But they have flaws and concerns just like everyone else.
10. No regrats.
You won’t live with the thought “what if?” I still have moments where I remember an argument and think about what I should have said if I had the confidence in the moment. That’s nothing compared to the feeling of wondering what could have happened if you had made a move on someone. So go out there and get the girl! Or boy :)
Enough reading this blog post. Trust yourself and the unlimited potential you have. Time for action.
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